We should date for fun, friendship, personality development and selection of a mate, not to be popular or for security.

To refresh your memory, the former flames were married in 2005 before separating just five months later due to an alleged cheating scandal involving a "In my 20s, when I was starting out my career as an actor, I wasn't looking for a relationship, but one found me and became serious, even though I hadn't planned to settle down until my 30s.