


Online dating services such as and [email protected] thriving as men and women post ads and photos of themselves in search of the perfect mate. Ellen) says online dating is an advantage for people who are uncomfortable about meeting people in public places, or who are new to an area.
"It’s a way of fulfilling sentimental human need for connection and romance without having to put yourself through a very unpleasant process of going to singles bars and things like that," Cain told , Cain writes about the "self-negating choices" introverts make when they feel the pressure to identify themselves as outgoing.
Hartman said that this is a choice she sees introverts make in their online dating profiles.
Indeed, most relationship counselors, including The Rules Girls, Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, agree that logging on can be a great way to meet your match. Online dating services also can be a good option if you frequently travel for work or have children or other responsibilities that make going out to meet people difficult.
What's more, you're not confined to the area where you live.
In the interest of promoting harmony, here are some tips on how to effectively court and date an introvert.1.
Just as nature abhors a vacuum, we abhor vacuous small talk.
"[Introverts are] one-on-one in the email stage and on a date.
They don’t have to worry about being at a dinner party, talking to eight people, figuring out how to look charming,” she said. She maintains that online dating can work for introverts in ways offline dating doesn't.
There has been so much introversion awareness talk in popular media in recent years that you would think we are all aliens dropped down unexpectedly onto this foreign rock full of arm-waving energy-suckers who now require introvert sensitivity training. We can be the life of the party when we feel so inclined.
We're not particularly shy nor are we unapproachable, though we can certainly come across that way.